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How good does an orgasm feel for you? Is it just me, or when I watch porn, how come it's like the guy is DYING of pleasure when he gets an orgasm, and i'm talking about amateur porn, which is some what real. So how good does an orgasm feel for you? | | A good orgasm should feel like the best thing you could imagine in your wildest dreams. Everyone is not lucky enough to get that experience though. It should make you feel totally drained, at least until you're ready for the next one. | Can't make my girlfriend orgasm? Hi. Me and my gf are together for over 1.5 years now and we are having lots of sex (up to almost 10 times some weeks) but I can't make her orgasm frequent enough. I'd say 1 in 10 times or maybe less. We are totally in love and have been practically living together for a year now. I truly care for her and her happiness and want her to have pleasure as much as me and maybe more.
Prior to me, I know (I asked several times) that she was having vaginal orgasms with her ex partners so I feel really really sad and think that she sees me as an amateur. When we talk she says that the sex is great and it's okay for her not reaching an orgasm, but I sense that she's lying not to hurt me. In a sense, we have a great sex life: always try new things, oral stimulation, dirty talk and all but this orgasm number 2 thing is really bothering me.
Any advices? | | It's not easy for all girls to orgasm you men need to realize that even if we don't we still love the sex. I doubt that she's lying to you. The sex probably is amazing let it go keep trying but don't get upset when it doesn't happen. It's not as easy for us as it is for you men trust me. You just need to find something that works and it'll work every time just keep trying, but don't get upset over it. | No orgasm in an hour. Then it came in 2 minutes? After one hour of sex with a girl I hadn't known before, I wasn't able to achieve orgasm. Then I achieved it myself and alone in her shower in about 2 minutes. What's the problem? Why was I able to do in 2 minutes something she wasn't able to do in an hour? And believe me, she was no amateur. | Maybe she reminded you of your mother.
No, seriously. Women give off pheromones. Just being near a woman inhibits your sex function.
You can get incredibly horny alone. Then as soon as you get near an actual woman, poof. You turn into a eunuch.
'Women know how to be incredibly provocative, as long as they're wearing something, even just a G string.
But as soon as they're nude, suddenly they turn cold as ice. Now it's your job to be the sexy one.
Whatever the woman wants, it's painful for the man. Whatever the man wants, the woman thinks it's repulsive.
Welcome to the reality of women.
Why did you want this again? | Girls only, am I different from u? -help? Hey ladies, I need to ask a question to find out if I'm
different from most women. This might sound a lil perverted
so that's why I'm asking. How many other women out there
like to watch porn?( I never hear other girls talking about porn)
I'm not a huge porno junky or anything,
but I find myself peeking at porn on the web a few times a week for about 10-20minutes a time.
just as an FYI, I have a boyfriend and we have sex 4 to 7days out of the week.
, and yes I do orgasm every time. So it's not from a lack of
sexual activity.
do you consider it perverted for a girl to watch porn?
what kind of porn do you look for, what has to be in it
for you to enjoy it? etc..this is what I like, best to least:
1- a lot of moaning,
2--an erotic story to go with it,
3- super chiseled muscular bodies,
4- a guy that looks like my man
5--really kinky stuff
6--well endowed men,
or? -amateur stuff, plain guy on girl stuff, two guys one girl, gay guys, group stuff, swinger stuff ,....or whatever else | | I'm good thanks...without the whole prono stuff...it's sinful and I resist. | Have sex or not? Please help girls!? Ok so I'm 17 and she's 18 almost 19. And she have had sex many times, and now I felt like having sex with her. It was dificult convincing her but anyways I'm allmost there, the thing is that she thinks that I'm good at it. And I know I am just that I've done it only twice LOL and she said she could stay all day doing it and that it's difficult to make her orgasm
So I got scared. What if I can't please her or last that long? Or if I don't make her orgasm
It's practically a pro vs a amateur. So if you can give me tips or how to deal with a pro at bed girl?
She says she like it slowly that both of us get horny at same time, and I do really quick haha :P
Thanks | | In the words of Van Morrison, "Any lovin's good lovin' so you should take what you can get." | Premature ejaculation? I am an 18 year old male. I have a very pretty 17 year old girlfriend. I have had sex before and she has not. However, we are both amateur and have no idea what we are doing. We frequently have sex. We both like that more than foreplay, however I can only last about 3 minutes... We've been trying for about 3 months now and I can never last long enough to make her orgasm. I've only made her orgasm during foreplay. The previous times I had sex I did not prematurely ejaculate. I could last 15-25 minutes every time. I don't understand why I can only last 3 minutes now. We are in love and she excites me much more than any other girl I've been with. I've heard that most guys my age can't last very long and that it will significantly improve with experience. Also, I used to work out frequently in my last sexual relationship. Recently, I haven't worked out in over 6 months. I've heard that might have something to do with it. Can anybody tell me if that is correct? If no, what can I do? | | Change positions once you feel you're starting to get close to finishing. My boyfriend and I started doing that and he's at the point he usually lasts at least 7 or 8 minutes, often more. | Am i doing something wrong? ok my boyfriend and i have been together for a while now and everything is perfect in terms of compatibility. we love each other and things have be escalating for a while. anyway, we made love for the 1st time a few months ago and it was amazing, exactly what i wanted my 1st time to be like. the problem is that the other times we have had sex he seems to get supper tired really quickly and i don't orgasm at all most cases, i mean i'm close to but not as close as i should or want to. i'm i doing anything wrong? and if it isn't me but him how do i talk to him about it?
then there is the question of foreplay... i'm a complete amateur and his experience is limited so i have no clue if i'm doing anything right on that front either. any suggestions?
p.s. i know that lubrication is key, and that stimulation is as well.
i know too many questions but i thought i'd get them out of the way
we are in our early 20s and yes we are being cautious and using protection and birth control so please no lecturing. | Firstly, take a test and see how long you take to orgasm without a partner. You could masturbate with your fingers or with a sex toy. If you can orgasm in like 15 to 20 mins then you are perfectly normal, if not then you must meet a gynaecologist for some quick prescription (trsut me, this isnt' any major problem).
Also, try speaking to your partner and try this... Though sex is best done the natural way, it sometimes helps to script it. Try roleplaying and try writing down what to do for what duration. Orgasming is done with a lot of psychological involvement. If your bf can get you to the mood, you will scream orgasm multiple times :-)
Plan your foreplay well, the duration, details etc.. and plan the different postures you are going to try... also plan what all you are gonna talk and what roles you are going to play...
You are sure to have multiple orgasms. Good luck and have a great weekend... | MATURE ONLY PLEASE. SEX ADDICTion? I'm a 23 year old male. I live alone in a 2 bedroom town house. I work 2 jobs as a computer technician and plus I do amateur boxing. I've noticed that I'm starting to think I have an addiction towards sex. The past weekend, I've had sex with 3 different females. Most females I have sex with are friends. By the way, I do use protection. I have had sex with married women.
I feel as though I'm having sex to prove how much power I have. Whenever I have sex, I cause an orgasm and that makes me feel confident. There has been females that were very promiscuous and they even confessed that they mess with alot of males but whenever I have sex with them then they want me to be the only female that I'm having sex with. I don't know how to control this addiction. I feel like I'm thirsting for this power. But right now, I feel empty. I can't find the right woman. Either a female is good in bed and is guyish or is very mature and bad in bed. What do you suggest>? have you ever went through this? | | i am only 20 years old, and i have had sex with at least 30 guys, but i am married now and have a baby girl on the way(1st guy) , this is bascially why i had to have sex all the time, when i was a little girl i was sexually abused by my grandfather ,uncle, and ex bf, and one cousin. it was harsh , but this all happend when i was really young, all of these guys told me it was all for love, that when you loved someone you had sex with them, cuz sopposedly that was the only way to show love or any type of emotion, i was between 6-10 when it was my g-pa,unlce, cousin, my ex bf was a whole different story and i knew what rape meant by then, but the rape happend on multiple occasions when i was little, and it was a feeling that i liked, but again i say i didnt know any better, and it was taught to me that sex meant to show love, i had to go through years of therapy for it, i never had sex with an acctual guy unitl i was 16 and i knew this guy since i was 4 years old, and it felt right when i finally did it on my own, and i would just start having sex with different guys, i would thing it was all great then i would go to the next and i would even cheat on boyfriends just to get what i needed, i watched porn all the time, had lots of toys , i was just that addicted to it all the way up until i believe i was 18 nearly 19 ,i always had protection but one day i got a really bad infection that the doctors believed was genital herpes, and that was something that would never go away , they literallly had me believing i really had it, but my tests came back and it wasnt an std but instead bacterial vaginosis, nasty enough if you ask me, but it was enough to tell me to relaize what i was doing was wrong and so many guys i had hurt just to get what i needed , sex was my drug, it always relaxed me ,made me feel better. and i was a virgininty stealer, those were the best, getting to show them what you can do and make them better , but when i did this they always were done with me and went to another girl and so far they all have been in serious relationships since then some have even got guys and are married, lol but me i was still looking , but after the std scare i stopped having sex altogether i voweled to find the love of my life, cuz who knows if i would have continued i might have really gotten one, im thankful to not have one , but i no longer watch porn, i threw out all my toys, and btw( it never helped me my family owned a adult store so i had toys and porn and other things all around me lol it was defiantly a challenge for me) i changed so much , being with that many guys showed me what i was looking for, i met a guy who accepted me for what i have done in my past and what has happend, ive told him everything evne how many guys iv ebeen with and he accepts me , he was a virgin when we got together he showed me that i could resist sex by teasing me all the time for i believe 2 months ,then finally we had sex and it was the most amazing thing i ever felt, and i realized that i loved this man, i am now happily married and me and him have our first guy on the way, she is due in 9 weeks, and we cant wait to start out family and lives together, i know its hard what your going through , but you will eventually stop what your ddoing and settle down nearly all men do, its just a phase that alot of people go through, my brother is your age and does the same thing and he just now starting to be in some relationships, but onluy uou know what you want right now and its up to you on how to proceed any further , good luck hun | The guy I'm seeing is high maintenance sexually? He is incredibly difficult to please. He is insanely picky sexually, especially when it comes to blow jobs. With my ex, I knew his shaft so well I could make him orgasm any time I wanted to. However, the switch between my ex and this guy is very taxing mentally. My ex made me feel like a sexual goddess but with this guy I feel like an amateur! He is also one of the most honest men I have ever met. He will be extremely blunt with his negative comments, saying things like "It doesn't feel good AT ALL when you do ____". He will compliment as well, but as with everything it's the negative things that stick. I am not used to being criticized and it actually hurts a little. I am starting to feel very insecure in the bedroom and I'm actually dreading giving him blow jobs when before blow jobs were my favorite things to give. How can I knock off these feelings of inferiority? | | I did not need to know that =/ | Porn is giving my boyfriend unrealistic expectations (long, sorry)? I know that it's normal for most men to enjoy porn, and even though I myself usually disapprove it (except for the amateur one because it's at least "real"), I I don't mind my boyfriend watching it from time to time. I think people's general opinion, and my personal opinion, concerning porn is that it's no big deal as long as men can differentiate it from reality and doesn't affect your relationship/sex life.
However, I think it's starting to affect mine. I enjoy sex a lot, I try lots of stuff in bed, and my guy even keeps pictures and videos we made together. I consider myself a beautiful, confident and quite "game" girl, but of course I have my insecurities as everyone does, I dont have DD cups, and there are some things I'm just incomfortable with trying. Or at least for the moment. I'm only 20 and feel like at my age, I shouldn't have already been there, done that, with sex.
But the thing is I think my boyfriend somewhat compares me to porn stars (while still usually being rational and not completely addicted). He sometimes says little things such as he'd like my hair to be longer, me to actually scream in bed, etc. and sometimes tries to pressure me into doing stuff I don't want to do or that I know I don't like. For example he always wants me to do anal without prepping me for it with some play; he thinks he can just stick his (well-hung) self and that I'll be calling his name right away. After I've bled (!) and told him I just wasn't ready for it, he keeps asking for it or just randomly try to stick it in and says he's just "too excited" when I ask him what's up. Or he thinks that I'm willing to have sex 24/7, and when I say I'm not in the mood (when we've already had sex that day) he tells me I'm boring. Also he seems to think I'm only there for his pleasure and he doesn't have to return the favors... I very often blow him to orgasm, and he's never even taken the time to make me come with his fingers or mouth (intercourse doesn't do it for me), because I "take too long." Somehow he thinks that for me giving is as fun as receiving is, but has a double-standard when it comes to himself?
Our relationship is great in every other department; he's a romantic, fun, sweet guy whom I admire very much for what he studies and the work he does helping people, he never disrespects me other than when he mistakes me for a porn star. I don't know what I should do. Should I leave him (when I love him so much) or just seriously confront him? I've already told him to stop comparing me to porn girls, but he says he doesn't and just says stuff like that when he's "too excited". Do I need to have a deep and serious sit-down talk with him, and expect him to change after that? It seems to me like so many women have lost their boyfriends/husbands because of porn, because even when guys make the commitment to stop watching it, they come back to it... I don't know what to do. | | Yes your boyfriend needs a reality check... his excitement level which he talks about is because he has been mentally stimulated by those videos to an exaggerated level, which is a mind trick. I got lucky enough to find this book recommended to me by my friend who heard about it online, and I got a copy for myself and my husband. My husband used to be into exciting sex as he calls it. So once we got into reading the info in the book we were quite surprised how it explains the problem and the solution in such detail. the short of it is that he no longer is focused on exciting sex, because he knows that it is fake, and he is not into fake stuff. we have a great bond together and our sex together has changed to something completely different from what is shown in porn. We actually communicate while having sex, we laugh, we say stuff like, no that ha ha does not feel good, and we talk back and forth and learn from each other what feels good, and also we talk about our feelings while we are having sex..its different. When I mention the book to my friends, they say they have heard of it too. me and my friends decided to start a group to talk go over the book, like a book club. so I recommend the book |
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