Hi im a female interested in self bondage? i regularly have sex or masturbate but i really like the idea of bondage. however my partner isn't interested in this so i was wondering if anyone had any ideas of how i could do self bondage? i dont have any equipment but i have things like thick string. any ideas? |
rule one is always have a safety net and a sure fire way to escape. Best to also have a cell phone handy and someone you can call that won't wig out when they find you in ... whatever condition you might be in...
i have frozen the keys to handcuffs or padlocks in a block of ice so i cannot get to them until the ice melts. That is one way i can make myself helpless and 'really trapped' for a few hours. Note that this is not entirely "sane" as a fire or burglar or other unforseen crisis could arise and i'd be stuck so please have a safety net...
you mentioned using 'thick string'? how thick? you should use at least 3/8 inch rope and practice tying it in ways that won't tighten up over time.
There are some excellent tutorials on various restraint techniques around.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=JKBcc7e1E…
www.geocities.com/WestHollywood/9…
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-bondag…
have fun |
How does someone employ a bondage model? A female bondage model that is! |
look it up in the newspaper. there's always heaps of stuff like that.
if it doesnt specify bondage call up and ask, and ask for a photo if you need one?
if not call up some of your local modelling agencies (probably some dodgy/porn ones?)
you could also try calling an escort agency and ask if anyone would be interested?
or try a stip club and ask some of the girls. they'll probably just think you're trying to sleep with them though.. |
For the female bondage lovers out there, what would you do in this situation? Imagine you're tied up in a standing position (no way to sit down) and you're wearing 5 inch heels that are locked to your feet. Your feet start to hurt and you still have some hours to go, what would you do? Shift weight from left foot to right foot and reverse? Try to ignore it? Put all pressure on the heels?
I'm asking because I'm thinking about doing this to my GF who loves bondage also, she loves being tied up in the most difficult positions. I know that she has some 5 inch heels that she can only wear for an hour so this must be quite fun (well yeah i'm a little sadistic) :) |
You might consider giving her a way to temporarily relieving the pressure on her feet, say by having her hands bound above her head attached to the ceiling so she could "hang" a bit.
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In bondage role play, which gender is usually the submissive and which is the dominant. I am a female dominant I was under the impression that most males preffered being dominants untill I read these phrases from wikipedia:
1. Studies of men's sexual fantasies have shown that the fantasy of being bound during intercourse is second in frequency only to the basic fantasy of sex with a voluptuous nude woman.
2. Bondage pornography for heterosexual men almost overwhelmingly depicts bound women, rather than bound men, despite the most common fantasy in both sexes being one of being bound. |
Apparently in the BDSM world subs are in the majority with male subs much more common than female subs.
Dominant males are more common than female dominants.
May bf and I are both switches: we have the best of both worlds :) |
Anybody want to make up or tell a true story of a guynapped abducted female in bondage wearing pantyhose tortu tortured whipped suffer or how menstruation also started and had to wear the same soaked bad for a week |
| I would love to tell a story about that...but I think it would be better told in an email! |
How do you get your boyfriends interested in bondage? Some females seem to have difficulty in getting their guys interested in bondage. I find that unbelivable. Do girls really have a problem with this? |
I think some females are either not interested in bondage or don't know how to bring the subject up with their bfs.
Dominance comes pretty naturally to males.
I don't believe ANY guy could resist a girl in a sexy outfit cooing...."I've been a very naughty girl, daddy." |
What are some good positions for bondage and rope play with my girlfriend? My girlfriend suggested that we have fun with each other by tying each other up. I like this idea and so does she. However we don't know any positions besides the spread eagle position. If anyone knows any positions could you help us out? Maybe you could explain a little bit too. Since there is two of us we would like ideas for both male and female. Thanks. =) |
| Start simple with to the bed posts. Move to a chair or a hogtie and slowly add more rope each time making sure she's enjoying herself. A submissive woman is a treasure, remember that. |
Would it be lucrative to launch and run a bondage/fetish website? There are so many, wondering if $ 2 be made? This sort of thing is one of my passions. Damsel in distress style female bondage and foot fetish. I am an accomplished, published photographer. I was thinking about a request oriented site, and DVDs that are shot at differant angles, so the viewer could choose the ones that appeal to him or her first. I live in Pittsburgh, so i guess i would recruit a few female friends i already have, and perhaps start bringing a business card to strip clubs, as well as running an ad. Wondering if this is a feasible side business idea? |
Yeah its a great idea, there is definatley a market for this sort of thing.
Check out www.wusfeetlinks.com this is the holy ground for all things foot fetish, it has pics, links, and models from all and every foot/fetish/bondage site out there. There is also a forum/comunity there, it would be a good idea to go on that forum and ask fellow foot fans for advice on the subject since many members of that site have their own fetish bondage sites and could give you the advice you need. |
When will men release women from the chains of bondage? "Since marriage constitutes slavery for women, it is clear that the women's movement must concentrate on attacking this institution. Freedom for women cannot be won without the abolition of marriage." -- Sheila Cronin, leader of N.O.W.
"Marriage has existed for the benefit of men, and has been a legally sanctioned method of control over women... We must work to destroy it. The end of the institution of marriage is a necessary condition for the liberation of women. Therefore it is important for us to encourage women to leave their husbands and not to live individually with men.... All of history must be rewritten in terms of oppression of women. We must go back to ancient female religions like witchcraft.”
― The Declaration Of Feminism, 1971 |
| Mary, You're just unsatisfied because Women don't own society. You wouldn't be satisfied if everything WAS 100% equal for everyone, you just need to chill out and not try to control how others work. If women wanted to go your way then they would have. Women are very powerful, history has proven it. You and the rest of the Extra Militant male-haters are the only ones who want this. You want men in chains because you're sick and had a bad experience with a few. YOU chose those sh***y men, Don't take everything to the extreme and generalize ALL men and talk about how we're oppressing you and what not. Try being Black in L.A. |
Can you help me find good names for fictional characters for a bondage/fetish story? The story will take place in a University, where a secret society of students abducts and introduces inmates to the world of bondage, submission and fetishism.
I'd like to find good names for the main characters:
- The dominant male and female character who lead the secret society: He would be American, she would be from Asia
- A female character who will be abducted, then become part of the organisation. I'd like her to be a noble french girl, or Italian
- Several good names for other characters, especially the ones to be abducted and trained. They should come from various countries, such as Sweden, England, India, Russia, etc...
I know I will get many answers by "2 points hunters". But I also hope that some people will take this seriously. Not only will one get the best answer vote, but also they will appear among the authors of the story, that is to be displayed on a free story web site.
Of course, any input for the story is welcome. Give your email if you wish to contribute |
For the Dominant Male- Lou. For the Dominant Asian Femal- Que (pronounced Kwee) For the Dominant Abducted French Girl- Adelle. A Swedish name- Lolette. English- Emma. Russian Female Names- Elizaveta, Natasha. Russian Male Names- Viktor, Filipp. Indian Female Names- Dhara, Nilima. Indian Male Names- Mahabala, Tarun.
I hope some of this helps you.
My email is Wendy91386@yahoo.com if you want to bounce some ideas off me, I, too, am a writer, maybe I could help. Although, I'm not too experienced in the BDSM lifestyle. |