What are the harmful effects of pornography for a studying teen? Pornography has its harmful effects and I wish to know its effects so as to deter me from straying into such a path. Please enlighten me |
Distracting.....really distracting.....
uh...what was I saying here.... oh yes.....distracting.
Focus on your studies. |
What is the use of internet pornography? Is it good for a teen? Remember, you must have a good answer? |
No, its really not good for anybody except the pornographers who are raking in big bucks purveying this trash. Whatever the social ill, getting to the root of it is pretty much a matter of "follow the money!" In the meantime, people get addicted and destroy their lives over it.
Once you have seen this kind of stuff, you can never "unsee" it, it will have forever changed your perceptions of women and sexual relationships. Innocence lost can never be regained. |
Why is it that most pornography enthusiasts prefer the 'teen' genre.....? ? it seems like these days its 'teen' this and 'barely legal' that....i myself prefer to see the older ladies in action....like 80 or 90 or so....what pornography production committee got together and decided that 'teen' was the way to go???? |
| I cannot tell if you are serious or not.... |
Is it natural for older guys to enjoy age ("teen") pornography? ? My boyfriend likes to be sneaky and watches teen(15 and up) porn and has lied about stop watching it in the past. I told him I had a problem with porn from the very beginning and he told me that he doesn't care for porn, he said he only searches for porn once or twos a month...
We had a couple of arguments in the past because I caught him... we talked about it and tried to work things out... any who, before I get off tracked. I guess what I want to ask is, Is it okay or healthy for a grownup guy to search for under age porn (15 and up)? And If he promises that he won't watch that stuff again, is it a bull crap lie?
Is it also natural for guys to be attracted to younger (under age) pornography? |
NO! Under age porn is ILLEGAL!! Period!
He's going to jail, Bawana. |
How do I help my sexually abused teen nephews with pornography addiction? My nephews are 13 and 17. When I first married into the family (they're my husband's brother's guys) they were 3 and 7. They had terrible, abusive parents and got close to me and my husband quickly. We spent some time together for about a year. I had a heart for them and thought about adopting them, but my mother talked me out of it. After about a year they moved out of state to live with their mother. During that time they were sexually abused. They also saw their mom having sex in the car with some man. They returned to Michigan and no one in the family addressed the abuse. The guys and me didn't spend as much time together as we used to and time went on. The youngest one developed a stress spot where his hair was bald in one spot. The oldest got very quiet and withdrawn. Their mother continued to live out of state. Their grandmother (the closest they had to a mother) pushed them away. So they moved in with their abusive aunt and abusive father. My husband and I witnessed some of the abuse and called CPS twice on them. Both times nothing came of it... CPS announced by mail when they'd be coming, briefly talked to the boys in school, and then visited the house to comment on how clean the floor was - and left). I called CPS to complain and was told "There's only so much we can do".
They continued to be physically and verbally abused. Five years after the sexual abuse occurred their father finally got the youngest one counseling. By then he had molested a classmate and a younger cousin. The counselor lady wasn't helpful at all. Now my nephews are 13 and 17... Both have had their own cell phone for years and have sent pictures of their penises to female classmates. Both have requested sexual favors from these girls. Both have been looking at pornography for years and have been caught looking at some pretty hardcore stuff countless times. They have easy access to it. Their father is also addicted to pornography and keeps pictures on his cell phone... so he's been a great example. They're still being verbally abused. Their father threatens to hit them all the time, but I haven't seen him do it in a few years.
MY QUESTION: How do I help these guys? I'm a Christian and thought about getting them involved in youth groups. However I don't attend church and don't have time to try and pick a good church. I work alot and have my own guy (age 7) who I homeschool. I can barely make ends meet and struggle each day to get done what I need to get done. My husband is on me daily to meet his sexual needs, and just recently stopped his own pornography addiction. So I feel pressure to fill in the gap and hardly have time for him as it is. My father was recently widowed and seems to need me, but I can't spend time with him as I'm always busy. It's been years since I spent quality time with my nephews so there's really no relationship there. I feel like they probably won't listen to my advice since I'm never there for them and hardly see them. Plus the sexual addictions they have - have had so many years to take hold of them. I saw my husband lose the pornography battle again and again... How can hormone-filled teens be swayed to stop? I just feel like I don't know what I'm doing. I'm not a counselor and am a very shy, withdrawn person. I want so badly to make a difference in their lives. I wish I could go back in time (10 years ago) and give them the time, attention, protection, and love they desperately needed in their lives. Thanks for reading this... I TRULY appreciate any advice. |
| id adopt them and take them to a therapist |
Guy Pornography or Teen Models??? Both Disgusting!!!? Alright so I wanted to know if these teen model sites easily found on google are illegal in the US??? And how can they get away with showing such disgusting images without having their site kicked off immediately??? The ones im talking about do not show anything but they are posed in sexual positions....anybody know why they arent being taken off google???? |
Because they are technically not doing anything sexually explicit. The law says thet f they are nude then they get in trouble. Since they are fully clothed, they are not really doing anything against he law.
Repulsive though it may seem to you. |
What are your views on teenagers viewing pornography? Is it just a "healthy, normal part of growing up" that all teen boys do or does it give an unhealthy perception on sex and women that teen boys don't need placed in their head?
Thoughts? Would you accept your teen son (or even daughter) looking at pornography? |
Porn sites are not allowed in my home
and if I find porn in my foster son's room I remove it and talk to him about it
I have not found any yet but he's only 14. I would not accept anyone in my house viewing porn unless they are over 18 |
Why are divorce rates, teen pregnancy and appetite for pornography....? .... highest among the most conservative states? Is this the result of the religiously induced anxiety toward sexuality?
www.nytimes.com/imagepages/2009/06/27/opinion/20090627blowchart.html
Most of the countries on the top of the list are red, and the bottom is almost all blue. |
| Because suppression makes the problem 10 times worse |